CURRENTLY

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Hello FriYAAAAAAY! Any weekend plans for you? James is on tour (boohoooo for me but yay for him, he's having a lot of fun!) so I'm keeping it low key...having dinner with some of the T&T girls yaaa #bandwifelife, celebrating my mama's birthday tomorrow and studying/writing papers (ewh)...

I saw this fun update on my friend Annie's blog and I thought it would be fun to do today....

CURRENTLY:

WEARING: long tanks & lulus. I'm finally buying a new pair of jeans tomorrow...yiiiip.

READING: All the Light we Cannot See. I'm slowly reading it but want to devour it because the next book on my list is GIRL ON A TRAIN...eeeeee.

WATCHING: GREYS!!!!! And the beautiful blossoms arriving on the pear tree in my backyard.

ANTICIPATING: My love coming home on Sunday.

WANTING: These GOLD birks

LISTENING: Hillsong United's new number- TOUCH THE SKY

CRAVING: Hagaan-Daz Salted Caramel Gelato...mmmhhhhmmmm.

REMEMBERING: How good the changing seasons are. Sunshine, blossoms, longer days...yes please. #ptL for SPRING.

What about you? What's currently happening in your realm?

Hope you have an amazing weekend! 

xo,

s.s.♥︎.

HAVING A BLUE MOMENT

I'm reaaaaally having a blue moment right now. Seriously, how good are all these? There's something just sooo calming about pale blue...I need that Le Creuset pot in MY LIFE.

1. Nail Polish (I own this one and wear it ALL THE TIME!!!)
2. Scalloped Purse (Seriously!!! How presh is this?)
3. Le Creuset French Oven (I NEED THIS IN MY LIFE ASAP)
4. Blue Pump
5. Indigo Washed Pillow
6. Blue Instax (Debating investing in one of these babies...I'd think I'd go for pink though...)

It's ALMOST the weekend! yaaahooo. James is currently on a 5 night tour with Towers & Trees...I'm missing him like craaay...and this is the short tour...I don't know what I'm going to do when he's gone for THREE weeks!!! But I have great friends keeping me company..Thea & Nadia came over tonight and we had a great catch up and reminisced about our early 20s...oh the adventures we had.

Stay gold,

s.s.♥︎.

ON DEALING WITH THE NEGATIVE VOICES IN YOUR LIFE (AKA THE HATERS)

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I'm a naturally positive person. Positivity is my second highest strength on my strengths finder. When I come across negativity, I can actually feel my insides turning. I hate it. I usually run in the opposite direction. I like people to be happy. I'm naturally a people pleaser. So when people say hurtful things about me, I get real upset. BUT I've come to terms with the fact that not everyone is going to like me. Everybody has issues and sadly, people like to take those issues out on other people. Sometimes people say really hurtful things to your face or behind your back. 

Funny story...I once received a very in depth email (it was a general info email address that I would read and respond to) ABOUT ME. Yes, the email was complaining about me. LOLs At first I was shocked and sad but then I just had to laugh it off because it was kinda ridiculous that I just so happened to be the person receiving the mean email...

But sometimes I don't laugh. Sometimes I hear certain things and I get very upset. And I know some of you out there may be in this boat. Well, today I have some advice from you that could help you out when you have to deal with the haters....

1. SHAKE IT OFF

Not everyone is going to be your biggest fan and you need to be ok with that. I had this issue last year where I found out that people were not saying the kindest things about me. At first I was furious but when I got home and had a chance to clear my head, I turned on some music and literally danced it off. The great philosopher of our day, T Swift wrote a killer song about this..."And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate. Baby I'm just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake...shake it off, shake it off." 

When I dance it out, I literally see the negativity and hate fall off my shoulders. You do not need to let those negative voices define you! And take note- when you dance, you gotta go all out and have fun while you're doing it. Seriously, this is very important!!! Soon enough you'll start smiling and know that the haters can keep on hatin and that's ok because you are going to keep on shining. #cantstopwontstop
P.S. I highly recommend these songs- "Shake it Off", "Uptown Funk", "Two of Hearts", "Don't Stop till You Get Enough"

2. TURN YOUR CRITICS INTO COACHES

I went to this conference a number of years ago where Mark Driscoll shared in one of the sessions. I can't really remember what he was speaking on but I kinda remember it being on idols...anyways he said this statement that totally stood out to me "Turn your critics into coaches."

Now I'm not saying, analyze and give that person a voice in your life but examine what they said. Maybe there is some truth in it? You don't owe the haters but we're all works in progress and maybe there are some things you can improve on.

Allow their words to bring out the best in you, not the worst in you.

3. HAVE THICK SKIN & A SOFT HEART

When I'm dealing with haters, I'm naturally inclined to get my stuff together, work my butt off and prove to them that I'm fully capable. I develop a thick skin and an even thicker heart, and that is NO GOOD. 

You have to remember that people are people. No one is perfect. Everyone is dealing with their own stuff and hurt people hurt people. Sometimes people say mean things out of an insecurity, past hurt, etc....Lord knows, I've done that before.

When I was at Hillsong London's night leadership classes all those years ago, I learned that I needed to have thick skin and a soft heart.
Thick skin to not let issues, people, etc get me down but to also have a soft heart, that genuinely cares for people.

Jesus says it best in Matthew 5:44- “You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the energies of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves."

Now this is a hard one for me. I'm Italian and I'm reeeeeaaal good at holding grudges BUT God's been working on my heart, softening it. 

I'm not saying, continue to give someone authority in your life to speak negative things over you. I'm saying, pray for them. Bless them. Who knows what God could do with the situation....

But keep on shining like a diamond girl...don't let anyone dull that sparkle!

xo,

s.s.♥︎.

ONE WORD 2015 // SARAH

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Ohhh hey there friends!! Today I have a TREAT for you! My beautiful friend, Sarah is sharing all about her one word for 2015...enjoy xoxo

As I prayed about and pondered my one-word for 2015, I arrived at a simple word:

Stay.

I like adventure.  I'm a dreamer and I love having projects on the go and keeping busy.  I like to make lists and achieve as much as humanly possible.  To be honest, the word  'stay' seemed rather boring.   Considering I visited ten countries in 2014, the word seemed to mock me.   How would it be possible to have grand adventures if I was simply supposed to 'stay' this year?   That didn't seem like any fun at all!

But what if I had the wrong idea about the word?   What if I could apply it in a different context?   According to Wikipedia, "Stay the course" is a phrase used in the context of a war or battle meaning to pursue a goal regardless of any obstacles or criticism.

I have some hopes, dreams, and goals for this upcoming year.   All of these will require me to do the work and stay the course.   It's easy to be motivated when the sun is shining and the birds singing, but another thing to work out when it's cold and gloomy and I haven't yet seen any results; to say no to a beautiful new outfit if it doesn't fit my budget this month; to write another proposal at work even if the last three prospects have rejected me.

I've always been a very loyal, committed *cough cough STUBBORN* individual.   When I decide to do something, very little will change my mind.  For me, the hardest part is making the original decision.   That being said, I am not a naturally patient person.  I want things NOW!   I will admit to hounding my loved ones THREE DAYS after beginning a new fitness regime in 2015, asking if they could tell any difference in my personal appearance (sorry about that... but seriously, can you?!).

While I was writing this post, I came across a quote from Christine Caine, a leader I admire.   Her words seemed very fitting for 2015:

 
"To fulfill purpose you have to STAY THE COURSE:
When it's hard - STAY
When it's painful - STAY
When it's boring - STAY
When it's unfair - STAY
When it's lonely - STAY"

 

Staying the course will mean I have to keep at something, even if I don't see immediate results.  A Pastor in town once told me, "boot after boot, step after step, just keep walking.  One day you'll look back and see how far you've come."

Stay.  Stay the course.

Awwe, thank you so much for sharing Sarah!!! Excited to see what's in store for you this year :)

I have more one words to post but I'd love to hear yours! And if you want to post yours, please email me at laura@ssheart.com 

Previous 2015 one words- Mine & our one word brunch!

Hope you all had a fabulous weekend! Today is my day off after a crraaazy Sunday. Excited to rest, run and work on homework (obvs not excited about that last thing...lol)

xo,

s.s.♥︎.

OUR HOME // KITCHEN (BEFORE)

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You've seen the before photos of our living room, dining room, and master and now we arrive at the kitchen. Our current kitchen needs a whole lot of work. This is a BIIIGGGG project. We have BIG plans for this one...but before we talk, let's show you the photos...

It's not the exact type of kitchen that's screaming...BAKE COOKIES IN ME but it's alright for now...and let me tell you, I've already baked dozens and dozens of cookies in it. :)

I am thankful for the cupboard space and also for the fact that the cupboards are white and not some crazzzy bright colour BUT I have BIG dreams for this space.

First of all, we're planning on taking down that brick wall...before you say WHHHYYYY I LOOOOVE THE BRICK!!!, let me tell you...it's a FAUX brick wall. Yeah, so we're planning on smashing it down. During the crazy renos in December, James and my pops actually climbed up into the attic and secured whatever they needed to secure so we can do that in the future #lovethem.

So the wall will come down and we will have an open concept with an island FO SHO. When it comes to the rest of the kitchen, I'm sooo indecisive... good thing I have a long time to dream while we save up some $$$ for this massive project.

Here's what's inspiring me in the meantime...

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I'm all about those cute fluffy stools. And a farmhouse sink...and subway tiles...and butcher block countertop...part of me wants all marble but I know we will never be able to afford that..oh this will be a fun reno! In due time though...in due time...

Hope you have an amazing weekend! It's raining here in ol Victoria which makes me sad because of all the glorious weather we've been happening. We're having a clothing/garbage sale on Saturday so pleeease pray for sun and come on by if you're a local!

Happy Friday!!

xo,

s.s.♥︎.